tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post7530945274346142282..comments2023-05-04T04:33:14.576-07:00Comments on Where is that bird?: Judgement Mrs. Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12581889035592514779noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-84934852296824709212013-11-20T07:12:57.176-08:002013-11-20T07:12:57.176-08:00I, like you, am just getting started with my journ...I, like you, am just getting started with my journey. And while I haven't had some of the YEARS of terrible struggles that some infertiles have I do have my own struggles and am seeking support from people who can relate. Please know there are plenty of us out here that feel your pain and are here to support you regardless of how difficult or "easy" this journey is for you. The Run Away Storkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00971471535179009005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-43680940105643541412013-09-03T09:40:22.287-07:002013-09-03T09:40:22.287-07:00I have felt the exact same way but no matter what ...I have felt the exact same way but no matter what your journey is your journey and no one knows the heartache you feel except you. Seriously felt like I could have written this post.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09452369042062380443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-4582124646427865282013-08-29T12:36:58.575-07:002013-08-29T12:36:58.575-07:00Things like this are disappointing to me. Why do ...Things like this are disappointing to me. Why do we have to compete with each other over who's infertility is worse. Makes no sense to me and truthfully I can't see how there is any benefit to it.AuntMimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14422483597644189383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-43388281354811914002013-08-28T14:05:38.341-07:002013-08-28T14:05:38.341-07:00I am so sorry for whoever it was that said somethi...I am so sorry for whoever it was that said something to you. No matter where we are there's people who have it better and people have it worse, but struggling is struggling. I don't feel any "less" because my BFP took injectibles and IUI and not IVF or that it happened to work the first time. I celebrate with those that have struggled, failed, and got a BFP with Clomid or Femara and TI as well as those with IVF. We're all sisters in this and we all know this pain. *hugs*<br /><br />Whoever said this is just really suffering and try to move from them and to those that are supportive. Dream Chasehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16358524885210925683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-35516965893742539322013-08-28T12:19:26.851-07:002013-08-28T12:19:26.851-07:00I am so sorry that you had to experience that. No ...I am so sorry that you had to experience that. No matter what 'level' we're at or what we've been through, we are all on the same journey trying to get to the same end result. I hope that things start to look up soon :)Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00663062892241944545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-90233719743096247582013-08-28T11:37:10.826-07:002013-08-28T11:37:10.826-07:00I know exactly how you feel. 99.9% of the people i...I know exactly how you feel. 99.9% of the people in the community are so supportive and amazing. Then you get that one comment... Mine was "Wow, you're starting Clomid kind of early, aren't you?" REALLY?! You obviously didn't read my whole blog to get the whole story. God forbid I be aggressive with my treatment and try to prevent the heartache and sadness from lasting longer than it has to!!<br /><br />Hang in there!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01922083230051178843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-5376222536036523222013-08-28T10:16:03.498-07:002013-08-28T10:16:03.498-07:00I think what you have just experienced has probabl...I think what you have just experienced has probably happened to all of us. It is a horrible feeling to think that you're not experiencing as much, or paid as much, or suffered as much etc. For some people suffering through this, everything is a contest on who has been through more and who has hurt more. I am sorry you experienced this. I would like to say that sometimes I also make comments, but never to intentionally hurt someone or make them feel like they shouldn't belong. I tend to not get to emotionally attached anymore and sometimes that can pass over to people in my group. Like I said though, I would never want anyone to feel badly.<br /><br />Hope things get better :)Just Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315564549299993908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4513731652474698824.post-47518062318584120062013-08-28T10:15:12.677-07:002013-08-28T10:15:12.677-07:00How frustrating. Whether someone has tried a coup...How frustrating. Whether someone has tried a couple months or a few years or taking clomid or doing multiple IVF cycles, we all share the same pain-no child. Its all the same. The costs of treatment are insane. We took out a loan of 16k for 4 cycles not included meds and the IUIS before and it seems so unfair people do this for free!! Keep fighting!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16521069845002030377noreply@blogger.com