Monday, June 2, 2014

My weekend

My weekend started out great. Friday night the girls that I work with threw me a baby shower. It was actually a joint bridal and baby shower with another girl and the called it "Nappies and Nighties". Cute right?? I got diapers, wipes, a book and a gift certificate and they all chipped in and got us one of our car seats! Then on Saturday morning a friends son had his first t ball game so of course I had to go because I love him so much. Saturday afternoon we headed out to order the cribs!! We found one that we liked at Nebraska Furniture Mart and they will be in this week, and we ordered the other car seat. I sat there with such a smile on my face when we got home even though my feet looked like Shrek!

At 7:49 on Saturday night everything changed. The owner of the place I was going to be working from home for, the guy that hired me called. And before I discuss the call please know that I have been in three times for training and I filled out my new hire paperwork on Thursday last week. Okay... SO he said that someone that had worked for them as an administrator for five years left a couple of months ago and just got laid off at their new job. He feels as if it is in the best interest of the company to hire her back so he will no longer be needing me, but to stay in touch in case something opens up again in the future. Talk about rocking my world. I instantly broke down and walked back to where my husband was. I could barely get out the words that I no longer had a job after the babies arrived. I finally half way composed myself and went to sit with him in the living room. Then the feelings would rush back in. My husband was very sweet about what I was going through and told me that things will be okay and I really need to calm myself down because it isn't good for the babies. He said if that asshole causes something to happen he will hunt him down. I have been told that I could sue them but I don't have the energy and it's just not worth it. I will continue to pray that God will provide... I can't really start looking again until after the boys arrive but I may look at options online. I still can't believe that it happened.

On the pregnancy front I am 32 weeks today and going in for a growth u/s then I will go to the hospital for a stress test on Thursday. I'm on a twice a week schedule until the babies get here.  I will do my 32 week post tonight or tomorrow.. Please keep us in your prayers.

12 comments:

  1. Oh dear :( I am so sorry this is going on in your life! You do not need this extra stress. What an inconsiderate jerk who must not have a heart to do this to you. I will pray that things turn around for you and something works out because you deserve it! God bless you and your sweet babies!

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  2. I don't think I would even want to check back in with a company like that. I am a firm believer in character of people and that man is seriously lacking it.

    Your husband is right though, try to breathe and think about you and babies right now.

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  3. Oh sweetie. This is such a shi$$* thing to have happen to you right now. But your husband is right, you need to rest and think about those boys. That is what matters right now. The rest will work it's self out. My husband and I have found ourselves in a similar situation before and it did work out in the end. Even if it doesn't feel that way now.

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  4. What a crappy thing for him to do BUT maybe something way better will come along instead, things tend to work themselves out that way! Praying for that and that your stress test goes well. :)

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  5. You have been and will continue to be in my prayers! I'm trying to hold onto the whole "everything happens for a reason" saying for you. XOXO

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  6. Wow - that seems illegal - I'm so sorry! Trusting that there is another opportunity out there for you - but not saying that it takes away the disappointment. I know God can walk you through all of those emotions! Happy 32 weeks!

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  7. I'm so sorry that happened, and with such horrible timing. I know in my heart everything will work out. Just keep telling yourself that and focus on your beautiful baby boys!!

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  8. Oh friend I'm so sorry about your job news! I'm hoping and praying that this is happening because there's something better waiting for you. In the meantime you just focus on those precious babies and we'll all be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

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  9. I am so sorry that this happened. It sucks, and probably illegal. I hope that you will land something else that is even better.

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  10. I am so sorry about the job situation and stress from it ! I hope something better will come along for you!!! Hope your growth scan went well. Looking forward to your next update!!!

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  11. Praying for you. I'm so sorry!

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  12. What a jerk! I am sorry about your job situation.

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