I have also been focusing on what we have and not what we don't have. We have a great marriage, we have great jobs, we have (somewhat) supportive families, we have God, and we have our health. I always imagined that there would just be two of us in the room when we conceived but sometimes our dreams come in different ways than we expected.
I should be finding out soon what meds I will be taking since they have all of my blood work and my baseline ultrasound is done. ARC paperwork will be signed this week, and then medication will be ordered. We also need to schedule the gazillion appointments between now and then as well. Egg retrieval the beginning of November and then transfer. Our birthdays are a day apart (Nov 11th and 12th) and I couldn't think of a greater gift than a pregnancy. So I'm making sure everyone at the clinic knows this is what I want!